Ep. 26. How to Sell in the DMs Without Being Pushy with Jillian Murphy

Are you tired of sliding into DMs only to feel awkward, pushy, or ignored? This episode is your permission slip to sell with ease, authenticity, and confidence. Kat sits down with Jillian Murphy, a powerhouse with over 25 years of real-world sales experience and more than $100 million sold in corporate spaces. After pivoting online during the pandemic, Jillian cracked the code on connecting, selling, and building trust in the digital world without the sleazy scripts or aggressive tactics.

This conversation goes beyond generic sales advice. Jillian shares her blueprint for humanizing your DMs, letting content do the selling, and following up ethically while building real relationships that convert naturally. Whether you’re selling services, coaching, or products, her approach will shift your perspective and your results.

🔥 IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

  • Why people buy when they’re ready, not when you’re ready to sell
  • How to build trust online in a so-called "trust recession"
  • The power of showing up authentically in your content and interactions
  • Ethical ways to create urgency and follow up without feeling pushy
  • How to connect with ideal clients through genuine curiosity
  • Why the DMs are the ultimate "bursting pipe" moment for sales

⚡ MAIN CHARACTER MOVE:
Identify where you’re struggling in your business and make a bold, radical move to get help. Stop trying to figure it all out alone. Hire, learn, or outsource what will accelerate your momentum now. Confidence is built through action.

🌟 KEY TAKEAWAYS:

  • Selling isn’t about manipulation—it’s about connection, curiosity, and consistency
  • Content can do the heavy lifting when you build real relationships first
  • Show up as yourself, unapologetically, and your audience will trust and respond
  • Three thoughtful follow-ups are all it takes to turn "not now" into "heck yes"
  • Ethical urgency keeps trust intact while guiding clients to action

đź”— RESOURCES & LINKS:
✨ Follow Jillian → @thejillianmurphy
✨ Listen to The Jillian Murphy Show → Apple | Spotify 
✨ Follow Kat → @thekatherinemarie
✨ Follow the Podcast IG → @themodernwellnesspodcast
✨ Subscribe on YouTube → The Katherine Marie on YouTube

🎧 This episode is packed with practical, human-first strategies for online selling. Hit follow, and share it with the ambitious woman who’s ready to stop performing and start connecting in her business. Main Character Energy only. Let’s get it!